You know the moment you connect, and just like that you have entered a new lifetime. For me this was the day we took our second child home. Here, I am saying hello before we leave the hospital room. He is dressed, and he is blessedly awake. Bringing home the second child brought for us a whole new level of disarray. Were we prepared? Yes. Were we organized? Yes, until day 3. And then, for the next two years life orbited on it’s own. No matter which way I tried to push it, circumstances unveiled themselves beyond my control. With a 19 month old about to be potty trained and a newborn, we found out we were woefully outnumbered.